Laura Henshaw shares candid post about infertility and the pressure to have children

Laura Henshaw has revealed the one question she’s tired of hearing about is being asked when she’s going to fall pregnant. 

The fitness guru, who recently got married to her partner Dalton Graham last November, made the admission in a post to her Instagram on Friday.  

‘I get asked this often and I just wanted to share a gentle reminder of why I don’t ever ask this question to anyone anymore,’ Laura, 28, began in a series of slides with written text.  

Off-limits: Laura Henshaw has shared a candid post about why you shouldn’t ask women if they want kids

The Keep It Cleaner co-founder pointed out issues women face with infertility, the constant worry she has about her ‘fertile window’ and the decision not to have children.

‘If we want to have children, doesn’t mean we can,’ she continued. ‘Infertility is sadly much more common than you would ever think.’

Laura contrasted how there’s a ‘fear’ of getting pregnant at a younger age with a ‘100%’ certainty you’ll fall pregnant when you’re older but then, when you get to your twenties, there’s ‘not a 100% chance’ of falling pregnant.

'I don't ever ask this question to anyone anymore': The fitness guru revealed that she's tired of pregnancy questions before listing the reasons why including infertility, the constant worry about the 'fertile window' and the decision not to have children

‘I don’t ever ask this question to anyone anymore’: The fitness guru revealed that she’s tired of pregnancy questions before listing the reasons why including infertility, the constant worry about the ‘fertile window’ and the decision not to have children

‘We still have to consider at an age we still feel ready what our plans will be, as there’s a specific fertile window.’

Laura then questioned her own fertility and says it’s something she worries and ‘thinks about often’. 

‘What if I wait too long and miss the window? And then I wish I started earlier.’

‘I hope to have children, but I don’t know how fertile I am – I will have to wait and see,’ she added. 

'I don't know how fertile I am - I will have to wait and see': Laura questioned her own fertility and says it's something she worries and 'thinks about often'

‘I don’t know how fertile I am – I will have to wait and see’: Laura questioned her own fertility and says it’s something she worries and ‘thinks about often’

The fitness influencer then shed light on the decision to not have children. 

‘There is so much societal pressure to follow a certain path in life – finish school, go to uni, get married, have kids etc. The most beautiful thing about your own life, is that you get to choose.’ 

She concluded the post: ‘I think when people assume, it makes it hard on those who don’t feel like children are on their path.’  

She concluded the post: 'I think when people assume, it makes it hard on those who don't feel like children are on their path.' Pictured with her husband Dalton

She concluded the post: ‘I think when people assume, it makes it hard on those who don’t feel like children are on their path.’ Pictured with her husband Dalton

Laura married her partner Dalton Graham in a stunning ceremony held in Victoria’s Yarra Valley last November.

The pair held a wedding and reception at the Levantine Hill Estate, with Laura calling the day an ‘absolute dream’.

Dalton also took the stunning bride’s last name. 

‘What an absolute dream and we got to bring the boys,’ she began, in reference to their dogs being at the event with bowties on. 

She's a blushing bride! Laura married her partner Dalton Graham in a stunning ceremony held in Victoria's Yarra Valley last November

She’s a blushing bride! Laura married her partner Dalton Graham in a stunning ceremony held in Victoria’s Yarra Valley last November

‘Dream venue and dress. Dream everything, I am speechless.’  

Among her bridesmaids, who all wore gorgeous white silk gowns, was her Keep it Cleaner co-founder Steph Claire Smith. 

Laura became engaged to partner Dalton, who runs his own advertising and marketing agency, in 2018.

Earlier this year, Laura revealed she had to postpone their wedding for the fourth time as Victoria entered another Covid lockdown

Her girls: Among her bridesmaids, who all wore gorgeous white silk gowns, was her Keep it Cleaner co-founder Steph Claire Smith (second left)

Her girls: Among her bridesmaids, who all wore gorgeous white silk gowns, was her Keep it Cleaner co-founder Steph Claire Smith (second left)

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